Last August, a friend threw herself a birthday party. I was invited. It was her 58th birthday in the 8th month on the 8th day of 2008. (That line-up of 8s certainly calls for a party!)
Was this the typical come-over-for-cake-and-ice-cream-and-spend-an-hour-or-two type of a party? Oh no! It was a stay-over-night-I-provide-lots-of-activities type of party.
It was held at a ‘cabin’ up the canyon. (See the above picture.) This cabin was at least 4 times the size of my home! There was a lot of food, friends, and activities. However, there was not much sleep.
As time drew close to bid adieu, a little idea popped into my head. ‘Make her a DVD from all of the pictures taken of her party,’ the little voice said. I should have ignored the voice. But no, I opened my mouth and offered to make her one as my gift to her — even though she had requested no gifts.
Well, I’ve finally finised the project — nine months later in 2009 done by me, Nina. (That’s my line-up of 9s.)
So, why did it take so long to complete? you ask.
Ahem. Need I say life gets crazy? The project slipped to the back burner? But mostly, it was avoidance. I was having technical difficulties and so in response, I figuratively climbed into bed and pulled the covers over my head hoping the project would go away.
It didn’t.
So, this last week-end, I knuckled down. I worked on it. I stewed. I fretted. I tried this. I switched to that. I tried this program. Then that one. Then yet another one. Finally settled on a fourth program. And I am now proud to say that the DVD is finally finished.
What did I learn from all this? (This is always something that I constantly ask myself with the hopes I can learn from life’s experiences.)
First, don’t get a new computer in the middle of a project. (This is the second time I’ve done this.) Second, don’t get an update to the software that I am using for a project while I am smack dab in the middle of the project. (This is the second time I’ve done this, too. I guess I’m a slow learner!) Third, don’t volunteer to do a project when my nose is barely peaking over the pile of projects I’m already working on. Fourth, I CAN design a decent label all by myself! (That’s the one good thing that I learned.)
My to-do pile of projects is a smidgeon smaller now and my nose is sticking slightly higher above it. I don’t feel like I have this heavy ominous black cloud hanging over me.
Now, upward and onward to squelch another black cloud by completeing another project.
Love the reminder of how nice it is to FINISH a project. Thanks
Sounds like you’ve been there done that, too!